Thursday, October 14, 2010

Men Don't Want Sex???


When it comes to the clash of the species I will be the first guy to admit, that in the battle of sexual dominance, women have the upper hand. Lets face it, a man will never turn down sex, however we can’t always say the same for women.

But, it was only after reading an article from one of my favorite e-sites, www.soko.com that I realized quite a few men suffer from the same sexual “mistake”. Furthermore this mistake seems to be the major cause of a huge breakdown in the bedroom. Well, this might put me in man hell, get me evicted from the man club, or cost me a few man stripes but I’m going to let the cat out of the bag. Ladies, men DO get tired of sex!

Now before the gentlemen start burning me at the stake let me explain what I mean by tired of sex. It has been scientifically proven that unless you are suffering from a serious sexual dysfunction, it typically takes very little for a man to get an erection, and this comes even at times when he least warrants it. We can argue socialization or thinking with the wrong head, but once a man’s weapon is cocked and ready to fire, he’s going to assume it can be used! But ladies how many times has your man’s perfectly plump tool gone completely out of commission soon after he begins to use it? And this leads you asking yourself that fundamental question, is it me?

Well the truth is that even though a man may appear ready for sex, a lot of the times we really aren’t. Sounds strange doesn’t it? Remember, an erection is just as much a physiological response as it is an emotional one, and though it may be ‘hard’ to believe, there are times when we are either too tired, distracted, depressed or even (you ready for it) not in the mood to have sex! But how dare you ever let your partner in on that tragic piece of information. Therefore we fall victim to the golden mistake that men are notorious for…making an attempt, when failure is inevitable.

What you’ll find is your man has the energy to start the job, but then he is quickly reminded why he was not up for the task, which leads to performance failure, and this can be embarrassing for both parties.

I know quite a few of you females might be thinking “well should I ask my man if he’s in the mood before sex?” My answer to this is a resounding NO. Remember, society frowns upon a man who ‘turns down sex’ and even in our weakest hour, we still believe there’s a superhero costume tucked below our tighty-whites. My best piece of advice would be this, take the lead from your guy.

Any circumstance you have to coerce into sex will not turn out positively. So if you’re subtle hints does not lead to him stripping down faster than a slut at Mardi Gras, call it quits. If your man is up to the task, you won’t have to lay too many breadcrumbs.

Also bear in mind that you’re not both going to be in the mood at the same time. Because one is ready for sex, doesn’t mean the other is also ready to respond. So ladies if you’re loins are burning and you want your boy toy to quench the fire, make sure you don’t have to force that hose on, or you’ll be left having to fan your own flame!

follow me @CuffeStuff